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Emily Levin's avatar

Communing with you here—in this way, at this moment— feels sustaining and like a treat amidst the ashes. It feels like the fika I can hope for and, yes, ENJOY right now. I love hearing about your time with your child and I must admit, it sounds like a mythical kingdom, which is equally compelling and alarming. I am so thrilled for them to have that reality and equally horrified at how it sounds as possible as a flying dragon taxi service here.

Your piece and your stance make me see that I have chosen to show up as the reality I want out of expedience, personal necessity of the moment, and a sense that time is short and waiting for ideal conditions is a luxury/ delusion I can no longer afford. I am doing this in safe spaces now because my personal reservoir is in drought conditions, but the more I live in that way the more it seems impossible not to. Like the balance has toppled and living any other way feels false and now requires more energy than just letting go and accepting the climate, geography, system in which I live and exist. I am my own micro climate — maybe that is what those of us in inhospitable zones can hope for— not as struggle but as the zone in which me most thrive. And a place others might, too.

What a wonderful and chewy post!

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Christine's avatar

Thriving at 60 and beyond has occupied much of my thoughts lately. How does one do that in the current environment and as a single woman before I can retire from an educational system that does not change. Thank you for the essay and the thought provoking questions it inspires.

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